Why do I use the name “Creative Resolutions”?

When I began this work in 1991, I wanted a name that would reflect what this work is all about. Using the name “mediation” would convey one of the methods I use, but I use other methods--coaching, consulting, analyzing, advising--and all of these methods are only means to a goal.

My goal is to support clients to deal successfully with difficult problems and conflicts.

People who come to work with me are stuck in a situation that they don’t feel able to deal with on their own. It may be a relationship problem--a couple, a parent and child, coworkers--where you want to preserve and improve how you are together. It may be a relationship that is ending--a marriage or a family business--where you need to make arrangements that will end one relationship while preserving another. Divorcing parents are ending their marriage, but they need to continue their relationship as co-parents of their children. If they remain stuck in anger and hostility, their children will suffer the consequences.

If you fit into any of these situations, you may not be able to see a clear way to get unstuck and resolve the conflict. I offer a supportive process that (1) empowers you to develop the information you need to be clear about your own wants and needs and (2) helps you listen so you can be clear about the wants and needs of the others involved in the problem.

This process is “creative” in the best sense of the word. Getting clear about yourself and understanding the other--even when you don’t necessarily agree--gives you a sense of power and possibilities. From that place, you determine the best outcome, the “creative resolution” for yourself.